Can a man and a woman be friends?
On what type of man this boy will claim to be
What type of woman this girl will become if She comes to He
The boy and the girl may flirt originally
May hug generously
May kiss occasionally
But inside lies a complexity
He vexes She
Girl scribbles in Her diary
Boy lies awake with thoughts of intimacy
He becomes She's fantasy
Maybe this will end romantically
But that's too predictable
Though love is unreasonable
It goes beyond heartthrob gazing
It lives in frat boy hazing
Sunday night lazing
And bad child raising
She will always love He
He will always need She
Through bad break ups and crushes
And alcohol rushes
They can be friends always
This relationship stays
No worries about bad lays
And who pays
Or ending a fling and trying to part ways
Friendship is no phase
Maybe boy and girls are better allies
To chat over coke and fries
About the opposite sex
Be corrected on the subtext
Laugh about whatever comes next
This ain't a romantic comedy
They won't make out to a melody
Or commit a felony
To show they're in love
He wont be at She's door with twelve roses
She won't cry when He proposes
They'll just sit in that café
And dream of Santé Fe
Eat popcorn during "Amelie"
And never run out of things to say
They learn that this transcends all physicality
And in reality
Boy and girl fit perfectly
He chose She
She chose He
End of story.
Sunday, April 11, 2010
Posted by ButterflyRoyal at 1:27 PM
You're a liar...
face it....don't justify it
sugar coat it...
just name it for what it is...
you decieve by trickery
you act dishonestly
violate deliberately...as in a game
fool, sorcerer of trickery...you overreach
Though I realize
that asking you to do the opposite
will be contrary to who you really are...
your soul's identity, your stamp of false integrity
this is who you are, don't dare step out of your element
your character; whether fashioned by society, family tradition or pure ignorance...
I respect you for being you.
To get beyond shallowness we have to stop avoiding our pain, stop blaming others for our pain and stop looking to others to find joy. When you love you become very vulnerable, but as much as you become vulnerable to pain and loss, you also become sensitized to experience a depth of feeling you would never have experienced otherwise. It is far better to have loved and lost than not have loved. I will never regret the love I did experience because of subsequent pain through loss. For me it is a risk worth taking and the pain just deepens my ability to love. If you expect to find love in purely superficial characteristics and physical qualities you will most certainly experience extreme disappointment and heartbreak. If after heartbreak, you do not become bitter you will open yourself for the real thing.
wait for it......wait for it.....it is possible....it is real. Just step outside the smoke screen.
“Emotion is the chief source of all becoming conscious. There can be no transformation of darkness into light ...without emotion.” Carl Jung
Posted by ButterflyRoyal at 1:20 PM
Harsh Repitition....until lession learned.
I'm not looking for a fling.
If the various stages of my life have taught me one thing the valuable lesson of approaching
the possibility of love with extreme caution.
I love hard and unconditionally.
Most times never returned to me
Thoughts of all the times i put heart on the line,
my heart broken by Mr Right. and that other **** , Mr damn hes so fine
I made a dubious and perhaps even foolish decision to give love another chance. Could he
Really be down for the mammoth responsibility of loving me?
I decided to keep my feelings internal. For now, the physical would have to sustain me.
I enjoyed his company
too much to allow this moment to be ruined by history
looking for something more.
His strength, his gentleness, his wisdom got him in the door
His ability to sense my needs and desires made me give him A chance
A possible prospect for romance.
Maybe it was the way he just turned me out that had me thinking way too far ahead.
Candelite caressing mocha-brownskin casually nestled on bed.
Confused My body still tingled from the extraordinay love we just made.
I was dizzy from the electricty that still ran through my veins.
His ability to please me was spectacular.
I prayed his sweet talk wasnt a hustlers venacular
I'm not going to get into details,
because i dont want spectators trying him out for them
selves. (or comparing tales...)
Can't worry about all that now, Just going to migrate below these covers
caught by surprise friends turn into lovers
its my time to return some of the breath taking pleasure.
Worst case scenario its my 'mango' he'll treasure.
Posted by ButterflyRoyal at 1:18 PM
"I'm not saying us Women are perfect,
but we carry the load and carry it well,
some of yall men really need to get it together-
Expend much time/effort and thought on male empowerment
and then just maybe yall males wouldnt feel the need
to criticize what females don't do!
have you takn the time to look at the stuff you're doing?
if you wanna lead me anywer,
you must be capable of effectively and efficiently following/serving,
prove to me that my independence is optional,
I will coexist with you,
but look in the mirror first
and handle your refelction of issues
before you attempt to diagnose mine!
we've taken the fall for men too long(historically proven!...)
now its time yall step it up and get off that tit!
Focus on what you're doing and let us be the emotional beings...." (Shout out to Natalie on this one!)
So easy to point the finger...real men are accountable for themselves,
emotionally and physically. How about we each concentrate on ourselves
and highlight more good qualities about each other-
men and women.
Women can we celebrate men?
Men can we celebrate women?
..and stop complaining so damn much!, If he or she aint got/doin/ possesing/speaking/listening/sharing/manifesting/claiming/exemplifying/carrying
livin/empowering what you want....
move the hell on!
There are too many wonderful/powerful/successful/beuatiful/intelligent/charming/productive/executive-minded/spiritually and physical sound and whole-minded gentlemen and ladies in this earthly realm....to be complaining and venting about what one trifling fool didnt do or did to you!
If she or he aint it, right now....then WAIT!....balance and perfection (for you) will come! Stop setttling and rushing. Live this Life...Serve somebody....Treat yourself right!...manifest something...be productive and stop' talking' so damn much!.....
with much compassion in my heart,
Posted by ButterflyRoyal at 1:07 PM